Recently, I asked the BuzzFeed Community to share a bedroom trick that makes their partner go wild. The results are as NSFW as they are unpredictable:
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“I consider this my only real move, and it feels obvious, but it is very popular! Suck her clit, while flicking it quickly with your tongue. At the same time, slide a finger in and kinda curl it up, and circle the G-spot. It’s a real hit. While I’m def not blessed in other areas, every single partner has made a return visit.”
—Anonymous, 44
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“My current wife won’t do it, but my ex-wife would. A little finger action in the butt works every time.”
—Anonymous, 68
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“When he’s hitting it from the back, reach back and grab his balls. First time I did this, he nutted instantly.”
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“After foreplay is done and it’s time to begin actual intercourse, I slowly insert my penis head into her vagina and no further. Then I pull out. I repeat this to the point she will lock her legs around my waist and her arms around me to pull me fully in.”
—Anonymous
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“When my wife rides me, which is by far the sexiest position to me. When she really gets going right when I’m about to finish, she jumps off and finishes me with oral and with her hands, and just sheer sexiness of it and passion makes me go wild. It’s always the best orgasms.”
—Anonymous, 35, Male
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“Playing just a little, maybe during a movie or drinking wine? Then slowly touching. Maybe inner thigh or just a stroke of a touch sliding up her lower back, and if ok, pulling inward a bit, touching just at the waist. Felling the heat generated by now from her lower area and pulling it closer.”
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“I like to edge him orally while massaging the prostate. When he gets close (I can tell because the prostate contracts/gets hard), I lift up his legs and eat him out. Drives him insane.”
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“My wife is a submissive at heart. She loves it when I hold her arms down during intercourse. As soon as she feels restricted, she gets where she needs to be.”
—Anonymous, 55
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“Licking her toes will keep her going and keep her getting wet.”
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“Simple but effective: bend them over the side of the bed, kissing their back to their ass cheeks, then abruptly spreading the cheeks and attacking that booty hole with my tongue. Gotta hold them there because it always instigates the same reaction: they try to claw their way out, but after 2-3 seconds, they go limp and push back.”
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“While we are 69-ing as he’s getting ready to cum I hold the tip of his penis in my mouth and work my tongue around it while sticking my middle finger into his butt. He quickly cums really hard. Mine happens about the same time.”
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“I put on a caveman impression (‘me take you’), pick him up, throw him over my shoulder, and carry him to the bedroom.”
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Never thought I would see the day my 65-year-old wife would fall in love with a sex toy. A Small vibrator that will send her to an orgasm every time, sometimes twice in a session. Five years later, it still never fails.”
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“I use my cock like a magic wand. I create a suction effect by making my cock jump and pulling in her pussy juices through like a siphon. Every time I do this, it makes her cum more and more. It’s an ancient yogic secret.”
—Anonymous, 47
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“Is this a trick? lol. I blindfold my man. Cuff his hands and ankles Vitruvian Man style to the bed. I lick his lips, working my way to his neck, licking and giving little kisses. I take my fingernails and semi-gently rake the inside of his arms, then lick and bite his nipples hard. I bite his sides, which makes him ticklish. He likes it when I lean over him and move my head so it brushes his belly and sides. He loves it when I give gentle bites on his stomach and groin area, and he goes crazy when I bite his inner thighs while avoiding the obvious pleasure center. Add the occasional paddle and whip to the nipples and inner thighs, and he’s a very happy camper.”
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“When I go down on her, after she starts coming, I insert my fingers and go after her G-spot. It sends her orgasm into a whole other universe. Oral sex + G-spot play = life-changing orgasms.”
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“This trick has worked: while going down, insert pointer finger quarter inch in gently push up towards clit while licking, sucking on clit.”
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“I expect some folks don’t know where the G-spot is, so here you go. Reach inside her vagina, with your middle finger, up in the center behind the pubic bone. Feel for a quarter-sized patch of skin that feels different from the rest of the vagina. When this is stroked with the appropriate pressure, she will thrust against the pressure and ultimately climax to the point that some folks even ejaculate that they never did before.”
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“I have been complimented on my dirty talk by both male and female partners. The trick? Narrate what you want to do or are about to do. Then ask, ‘Do you want that, baby?’ or whatever term of endearment works. Points for dirty talk, while getting consent and getting feedback along the way. Everyone wins!”
—Anonymous, 51
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“She starts by rubbing my cock on her clit to orgasm. Doesn’t take too long either. Then I enter her shallowly, only about an inch, and go really fast, which drives her to another big O. Then I go deep, where I finally release, and usually she has a third. Works every time. It’s so good we’ve quit doing anything else!”
—Anonymous, 67
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“Dirty talk, also planning ahead for sex, especially using new toys or customers, always gets her turned on.”
—Anonymous, 42
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“Anal. I give her anal and she howls at the moon “
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“I twerk on the dick. Have you ever seen someone down on their hands twerking? It’s like that, but on a guy. The first time I did it, I didn’t even know I could; it just happened. It was a friends-with-benefits kind of situation, and the guy said, ‘You have to be careful with that, you’re gonna make guys fall in love with you with that move.'”
—Anonymous
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“Something that drives my partner wild during oral is using my lips around his head more than my tongue. Combining that with steady rhythmic strokes of my hand always sends him over the edge.”
—Anonymous, 43
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“Wake him up with a blowjob ;).”
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“There are a few things that always work: 1.) A white tank top. My husband can’t resist it. We joke that that’s how we had our son. 2.) A plain T-shirt nightgown, it works every single time. I ask for a cuddle as we get into bed, and his hands just start roaming lol.”
—Anonymous, 33
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“Talking him through it. I’m very vocal, and I tell him exactly what I want and how, and I praise him when he does it right. It also gets me super wet when we reach that flow state, which gets him even crazier. Oh, and he loves it when I bounce on it while lightly choking him.”
—Anonymous, 20
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“A couple of pillows under her low back. It changes the angle so that every thrust hits her G-spot on the front wall. Works every time, even with gals who insist they cannot get off with ‘only penetration.'”
—Anonymous, 54
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“My partner and I enjoy using sex toys in the bedroom, mainly vibrators and warm lube. My biggest turn on is when SHE is turned on and has orgasms. She absolutely LOVES doggystyle sex and has her biggest orgasms that way. The thing that gives her the absolute best and biggest orgasms is when we’re having sex doggystyle, and I pour warm lube on her asshole and lightly rub a vibrator up and down her ass. This was something I did in the spur of the moment once, and it has now become a (much enjoyed) staple in our sex life.”
—Anonymous, 47
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“The ‘tornado.’ My wife and I discovered this a few years ago. She lies down on her stomach on top of her magic wand (a necessity in every relationship), and I use my hand from behind and slowly (but with force) perform a tornado or swirling motion while inside her. It’s become her favorite thing and our go-to if she needs a little extra help getting there.”
—Anonymous, 39
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“When I go down on my wife, and she begins to cum, I suck HARD on her clit. Like to me it seems uncomfortably hard, but she assures me it’s not, and it DRIVES HER WILD!”
—Anonymous, 41
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And finally, “I’m 67, my wife is 73, we have sex four to seven times a week, we are both multi orgasmic, our ‘trick’ is that we listen to ourselves and each other in every aspect of our lives. When you know and can accept yourself, you can know and accept your partner in every way, no games, no hiding anything, just complete honesty and commitment to each other. We can’t keep our hands off of each other, and we’ve been together for over 25 years.”
What is your secret weapon in the bedroom that sends your partner over the edge? Comment below!